Unity – Unity Is Not About Being First (365/236)
Unity can be quietly undermined by one little word: me. When being noticed, heard, recognised or in control becomes more important than the good of others, even a church can become divided.
“Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” (Philippians 2:3)
Pride was at the heart of Diotrephes’ problem. The apostle tells us in 3 John that he “loves to be first” among the believers (v. 9). His desire for prominence led him to reject John’s authority, speak maliciously against him, refuse to welcome fellow believers, and prevent others from doing so (v 9-10). His pride left him dissatisfied with the place God had given him. Christ alone deserves the highest place. John the Baptist captured this perfectly: “He must increase, but I must decrease.” (John 3:30).
Unity matters: it keeps the church centred on Christ, not personalities. Leadership and influence are gifts, but when used for personal prominence, they can fracture fellowship.
God is not self-seeking. In Christ, we see the One who “made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant” (Philippians 2:6–8). Jesus taught His disciples that greatness in God's kingdom is expressed through serving others (Matthew 20:26–28).
Unity grows stronger when we stop seeking first place and give Christ His rightful place.
Pause and Ponder
Where might my need for recognition or control be weakening unity?
Am I using my influence to build unity or promote myself?
What would change if I gave Christ first place today?
The question is not, “How important am I?” but “How can I serve?”
Lord Jesus, forgive me when pride takes centre stage. Teach me Your humility and a heart that serves. May You increase and may I decrease. Amen.
Extended Reading: 3 John
Tomorrow, we meet Barnabas and John Mark, and discover the transforming power of restoration.
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