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Wisdom – The Tension Between Reaction and Response (365/17)

  • Writer: Preethi Alice Jacob
    Preethi Alice Jacob
  • 1 day ago
  • 2 min read
Audio - The Tension Between Reaction and Response


Pressure reveals our instincts. A sharp word, a sudden crisis, or unfair demands can push us to react quickly or withdraw silently. Acting fast may feel right, but impulsive responses often lead to regret, broken relationships, and unrest. True wisdom moves swiftly yet thoughtfully.


“Blessed is your advice and blessed are you, because you have kept me this day from coming to bloodshed.” — 1 Samuel 25:33 (NKJV)

Abigail faced intense pressure when her husband insulted David, a leader ready to strike back. With little authority and lesser time, she acted quickly—but with discernment. She brought provisions and spoke humbly, redirecting David’s anger toward God’s purpose. She reminded him that the Lord had appointed him for lasting leadership and warned that needless bloodshed would bring a heavy burden (vv. 28–31). Her wise intervention calmed a dangerous moment, sparing lives and hearts.


Jesus is our ultimate example of wise response. He calls us to learn from Him—to carry His yoke and find rest amid pressure, responding with gentleness, clarity, and peace (Matthew 11:29 NKJV). In daily life, pressure comes through emails, conflicts, and sudden demands. Yet, when we lean on Him, we can respond with grace instead of haste, bringing calm and wisdom to every challenge.


Pause and Ponder

  • What stands out about Abigail’s wise response under pressure?

  • When I’m pressured, do I react, withdraw, or seek wise discernment?

  • In which situation of your life can you be an ‘Abigail’?

Wisdom requires courage, humility, and clarity. May we like Abigail, choose to respond well and bring God’s peace to tense moments.



Lord Jesus, guard me from rash reactions and fearful silence. Teach me to respond with Your wisdom, courage, and peace. Amen.

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